We had an interesting discussion at dinner last night. Lindsey Lou Who was eating spaghetti and making quite a mess. Now, it is hard not to make a mess eating spaghetti, but she can make a mess eating any sort of food. Take a sandwich for example. She will open it up, lick both sides of the bread, poke holes in the bread, somehow get food on her hair, knee and toe, and call it good. Yogurt? Let's spread it all over the table with our fingers before we take a bite.
She may be the messiest eater alive. She has always refused to use utensils and she is currently using the bottom of the table to wipe off her hands (mind you there is a napkin sitting right in front of her). And she is insisting on trading seats at the dinner table each night, so there is no safe chair anymore at our dinner table (hmm, no one is probably going to accept a dinner invitation to our house anymore with that said :)).
Clint asked me if I thought the mess making was genetic. He asked if I thought he was that messy as a child. I laughed at my slightly OCD husband and said there was no way he was ever that messy at any point in his life. He may be the cleanest eater alive, which caused me to reflect on my own eating habits. I admit I can get a little messy sometimes and Clint is always pointing out something I left on my face (it is usually something chocolate), but I don't believe I was ever as messy as little miss.
We came to the conclusion that it is simply part of her personality. She is making up for her lack of physical mass (nearly 3.5 years old and 26 pounds) by gracing her all with her uber-personality. She has to make her mark somewhere.
So for now, I am destined to spend at least 15 minutes cleaning up the table around where she sat after every meal and at least that much time trying to get stains out of her clothes, and reminding herself that she will grow out of this stage by the time she starts dating (maybe).